We are all living life with different struggles. We are all navigating life, and though we travel our own paths, we encounter the same themes and realities under different circumstances. A tarot deck is representative of the spectrum of the human experience. Each card in tarot has a traditional meaning and each deck the creator’s interpretation of that meaning. Kaila Wilde uses her knowledge and interpretation of the tarot as a personal growth tool and to create an affirmative statement + note to keep us lifted and to remind us that we are not alone.
Each week, take what you need. Leave what you don’t.
Card:
Five of Wands
Affirmation:
I learn from every conflict I am involved in or surrounded by.
Reflection:
Many of us are somewhat uneasy when dealing with conflict, but what if we embraced conflict versus avoiding it?
Conflict is not something that can be avoided; It must be worked through, and resolutions must be established and executed. Our willingness -sometimes eagerness- to share our thoughts and concerns with others must match our willingness to hear the thoughts and concerns of others. It is uncommon that we don’t have something in common with those we may find ourselves at odds with. Accordingly, it is important during times of conflict that we dig deep to find a piece of common ground. Most often, it is a combination of differing opinions, ideas, and ways of moving that lead to the most brilliant and sustainable outcomes and resolutions.
We must also keep in mind that a lot of external conflict is actually rooted in some sort of internal conflict. Frequently, the issue or conflict being addressed is usually one of many layers that requires acknowledgement and addressing. In relation to ourselves, keeping this in mind allows us to practice a level of self-awareness and reflection. In relation to others, keeping this in mind increases our ability to display compassion and tolerance. Simultaneously, we must be willing to go within ourself and step outside of ourself during conflict. When we grasp how to view things from another vantage point, it sets us up for understanding in the midst of confusion.
Application:
Listen to understand versus to respond. When we listen to respond it becomes extremely difficult to listen to understand. Typically, we are more close-minded when we listen to respond and more open-minded when we listen to understand.
Reprogram our thoughts about conflict. Conflict and strife can actually be spaces for learning and development to take place. Each time we resolve or learn how to deal with a conflict we are more and better prepared to deal with others and help others.
Tarot card from Minimalist Tarot by Katie Troisi